How to take right decisions? Does Severe Anxiety hamper my decision-taking strength?

• The story given below will explain everything to you.

There was this thief who committed a theft in a society. He was caught and mercilessly beaten. 

He died.

The society people felt very guilty later. So the elders of that society sat together and decided that if they catch another thief in the future they will not kill him. Instead they would try to rehabilitate him.

Next month again they caught a thief. They lectured him all the good morals, gave him food and also assured him of a decent job if he left this dirty work.

Now this person was a compulsive thief. He returned again the next week to steal in the same society.

But again, he was caught. 

This time the wise men sat together and decided that the extremes of a very bad and a very good behaviour were not workable. The middle path is always the better path.

So the thief was then told that he could either eat 100 raw red chilies without water or he could accept 100 lashes on his bare buttocks. The choice was his but one of the punishments he would definitely have to face as a price for his decision to commit theft.

The thief decided to go for 100 chilies without water. But by the time only 10 chilies were inside him he was crying with a mouth on fire and burning pain in the stomach.

Desperately he shifted over to 100 lashes on bare buttocks. But by the time 10 lashes were over he was doubled up with pain again. So he once again shifted over to the chilies punishment. 

Once again, the same sequence was repeated. And once again, and once again….

He was to pay only one of the prices. But because he could not decide what price to pay for his action of committing theft he ended up paying both the prices. He took 100 raw chilies as well as 100 lashes!

• Are you too in a similar situation some times in your life? 

• You cannot decide which way to go because you can’t decide which price you are willing to pay for getting the benefit that you desire. 

• If you are willing to pay the price then you can easily say 'Yes' for that decicion.

• If you are not willing to pay the price then you can simply say 'No' for that decicion.

• Taking a decision becomes so easy with this formula.

• However, in the presence of Severe Anxiety you can lose the ability to decide what to do and what not to do at the right time.

• You may just keep on postponing taking even simple decisions of daily life.

• Consequently, simple situations become big challenges.

• Later, those challenges assume the avatar of big crisis.

• Please click here to know whether you have Severe Anxiety or the usual anxiety………

• Yes, very true. Everything is balanced.

• Nothing comes free in life. The price has to be paid!

• Every problem is just a decision waiting to be taken – either this way or that way. 

• You pay the price and get that particular benefit.

• You do not pay the price, you do not get that benefit.

• Once an action is taken on that problem you go to the next level of new problems... new decisions and new actions.

• Every action leads to a package deal- a combination of some benefit plus some price. 

• Whether we like it or not – it’s The Natural Law. 

• This Natural Law is very clear and totally impartial. There are no exceptions.

• It’s like The Law of Gravity. 

• If you go within the parameters of gravity the gravity will help you to run or even fly in an aeroplane.

• The moment you break the law even a little bit, the same friendly gravity will break your bones or even kill you.

• No exceptions. Always fair. Same rules apply to with everybody.

• Same rule works with The Natural Law of actions and its consequences.........

• It’s because deep inside, you want to have all the benefits of your actions without paying any of the prices.

• You keep on and on and on looking for the best decision, the least costly decision or the decision where there are no prices attached.

• But the fact remains that there is no situation where you can get your desired benefit without paying its price.

• eg. 

You have to study well to get good marks.

You have to drive safely to reach your destination safe and sound in one piece.

You have to be ultra-cautious with the fire in the kitchen to keep your kids away from any harm.

You have to work hard in your office to get the right promotion at the right time.

You have to be careful with your expenses to enjoy the money that you earn every month.

You have to be decent and loving with your family members to have a friendly atmospohere in your family.

You have to do exercise daily to have a healthy and fit body.

You have to stop eating the junk food to keep your sugar and cholesterol within safe limits.

• So you see, every time everywhere in life, there is always some price tag if you want to have some benefit in your real life.

• However, you are afraid of the decision going ‘wrong’ in the future – ‘What will happen if the price to be paid is too much?’

• This worry prevents you from taking prompt decisions. 

• You are also afraid of making a mistake because of your inner deep-rooted fear of  ‘What will people say?’… ‘What if they make fun of me or criticize me?’

• This starts causing more and more anxiety with in you. 

• Then you are not able to take even quite simple decisions.

• This indecisiveness gradually causes more and more anxiety.

• This cycle of anxiety - indecisiveness - more anxiety - more indecisiveness soon assumes huge proportions.

• Then it becomes Severe Anxiety.........

• Take the steering wheel of your life in your own hands first of all.

• Start by taking small decisions independently in every situation of life everywhere from today itself.

• The basic formula ABC of decision taking remains the same for every small or big decision of life.

• A - Actions which you must implement, 

B - Benefits that you desire to achieve, 

C - Cost that you must pay.

• In other words, face the consequences even if it is a little painful initially.

• It’s going to be tough initially for a few days, no doubt. 

• But very soon, we can guarantee you, you will start enjoying your new-found freedom.

• Then you can start with the major decisions and progress further. 

• Sure, you must consult your friends and family members, but remember it is your life ultimately. 

• You have to fight your own battles alone. It is the Natural Law........

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• Then Dr. Arora, an awakened soul, will help you through his Online Group Coaching on ‘7 Mind Secrets’. 

• For the last more than 4 decades he has been helping ambitious people like you who are having  Severe Anxiety and Indecisiveness.  

• You too are soon going to learn how to lead a Beautiful Magical Wonderful Life [BMW Life].

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